DEAR QUEEN
Dear queen, Have you ever been in a situation where you are the LOVE doctor, giving advise to Your friends on their heartbreak. And you feel like you can't relate because what happened to them would never happen to you. GUILTY..!!!
We are all so clever and come up with the perfect advise to our friends, but what happens when the same situation is upon us. We usually tend to fall in the same exact trap as our friends, the same advise we give our friends all of a sudden doesn't apply to us.
I am no expert on life, love or relationships, but I usually find myself giving advise to someone on what they ought to do. Easier said than done right.!! Yes it's way much easier to handle someone else's situation because it's not on us. As soon as the situation is on us, it's like our common sense shuts down, and find ourselves doing the exact same thing we advised our friends not to.
Dear queen, The thing isn't that you don't know what to do, you can be very much aware of the situation, but its the taking the step that mostly hinders us from letting go. We get used to a situation, it's our world and probably can't imagine another world without that person and having to start all over again. Most people will choose to stay in the situation mainly because of fear. Fear of the unknown, fear of letting go, fear of being alone, fear of starting over.
Dear queen, Fear is such a strong emotion that takes over us, if we let it. You have to keep in mind that when a situation is not good for you, you have to let it go. It is not the end of the world, it's only a fraction of a world that meant something to you. You have to separate the two worlds, YOU and THEM. heartbreak is painful yes, and it will hurt for weeks even months, But bare in mind that the world does not stop. With time you will find yourself laughing and doing the things you thought you would never do. You have to let go of toxic people and relationships.
Dear queen, As a woman staying with someone toxic may be blocking you from getting your one true love. Dont be in a hurry to find a man. Do not fall for the sweet nothings whispered in your ear. Does his mouth match his actions, Does he pray for you? The funny thing is the devil knows our desires and he acts on them. The devil is also working, he will send you a man, sweet at first then you will learn his true devilish manners.
Dear queen Put your Trust in the Lord and Wait on God to send you the right man for you, who will treat you like a queen, RESPECT you, HONOR you, PRAY for you and LEAD you to God.
Dear queen, While you are waiting on God, get to know yourself, work on being the best version of yourself, know your worth, value and respect yourself. Learn to love yourself, if you don't love yourself then who will love you? Spend time with with yourself, date yourself, travel and see the world. Be patient, have faith and at the right time, the things you are praying for will come true.
DEAR QUEEN, YOU ARE A QUEEN AND DESERVE THE VERY BEST THE WORLD HAS TO OFFER!!